How to Host a Virtual Book Club

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How to Host a Virtual Book Club

Blair H. Lee, M.S.

Book Clubs Are an Excellent Addition to Your Homeschool!

Book clubs are perhaps the perfect mix of the academic and the social. They’re also an excellent way to bring people together virtually. Meeting to discuss a book provides participants a focal point without putting too much pressure on an academic conversation. Virtual book clubs are wonderfully flexible and can be adapted to meet the needs of a particular group with ease. 

Got a group of voracious readers? Meet every week! Have a bunch of busy people who struggle to get through a book? Meet once a month! Have casual readers who just want to chat? A book club is perfect! Want to dive deep into every aspect of the text? You can do that, too! 

Book clubs are also excellent additions to homeschooling curriculum. They provide the chance to build a habit of reading and set pacing goals to increase your reading speed and fluency. They offer the opportunity to ask questions and hear different perspectives to truly understand difficult texts. Book clubs with themes help to draw connections across different genres and historical periods, helping participants synthesize information — a key research and critical thinking skill. 

 Finally, book clubs do not need to be the end of the exploration. They can provide a basic framework of books with endless opportunities for expansion and deeper dives. Use a book club as your spine and then go deeper. Craft writing prompts and write essays. Find a partner from the club who wants to explore the same aspect of the book you do and create a project. Journal about your reading experiences to self-reflect on your strategies and approaches. Put on a puppet show. Start a podcast. 

I hope I’ve convinced you that book clubs are an excellent addition to your homeschooling practice (whether it’s for kids or adults!). Now, I’d like to share some easy steps for getting started if you want to host a virtual book club of your own.

7 Steps to Creating a Virtual Book Club

Step 1: Choose a Format

Even before you pick books to read, you should decide how you’re going to “meet.” There are a few different ways that you can interact: 

  •     Asynchronously– While you may be reading the book at the same time, you do not have to find a time that works for everyone’s schedule to discuss it. You can share ideas through discussion boards and video posts, letting you interact without having to sync your schedules across time zones and other obligations. 
  •     Synchronously– Even without being physically together, you can still capture the spirit and feel of a face-to-face book club. If you all join a video or voice chat at the same time, you can have real-time discussions. 
  •     Hybrid– You don’t have to pick between the two! A great book club can have both asynchronous and synchronous elements, allowing people who can’t always participate in the live meeting to still take part in the community you’re building. It also allows people who best connect in real time the opportunity to do so. It’s the best of both worlds! 
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Step 2: Choose a Platform

There are several different platforms to use for a book club. The best bet is to choose a platform where the bulk of the participants are already active. Facebook, Google Drive, Google Classroom, or a Wordpress site are all possibilities for setting up asynchronous interactions. 

 Zoom is the most popular synchronous platform. Skype or Google Hangouts would also work.

Step 3: Determine Pacing

Now that you know how you will be meeting and what technology or platform you will be using, there is one more step before you start choosing the books themselves. You need to decide how often you will meet (which therefore determines the reading pace). 

 A weekly book club might make sense for voracious readers going through relatively short works. Monthly book clubs are the most popular and seem fairly easy to manage. There are no rules that say you have to meet that often, though. If reading a book for six weeks or two months keeps everyone’s stress levels down and makes it more fun, go for it! 

Step 4: Choose Your Books

You’ve made it to the fun part! It’s time to choose books! 

 It might be a good idea to poll participants and see what they have in mind. Do they want to read fiction or nonfiction? Are they interested in exploring the classics or diving into new releases? Is there a particular genre of interest? Are there some content goals to connect to a larger homeschooling lesson or discipline? 

 There are also no rules that say you have to stick with a single genre, format, or length throughout your book club. 

 Personally, I really enjoy book clubs that operate around a theme for a set of books. When there’s a single topic that can weave together some classic and modern fiction with nonfiction, I leave feeling like there was a really deep and meaningful exploration of multiple perspectives. 

 A consideration to keep in mind when choosing books is accessibility. It is not always feasible for everyone to purchase new books (especially if you plan to make this an ongoing book club). Check with participants to see what kind of access they have to library services and used books. Keep in mind that services like Hoopla are on-demand while other services may have limits to how many copies of an e-book can be checked out at once. 

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Step 5: Determine the Organization

Whether you want to appoint a leader or have a more egalitarian approach to your discussions, you will need some kind of order and organization to keep things moving. If you’re meeting asynchronously, how often will you post discussion questions and links? Who will be posting those? 

 If you’re meeting live, who is guiding the conversation? Will you take turns? Will everyone be expected to speak, or is it okay for some people to sit back and listen? 

 Some of these guidelines will change as you fall into rhythms and adapt the flow of your particular group, but it’s a good idea to think about them ahead of time. The biggest downfall to a book club (and, really, almost any plan) is having good intentions without concrete follow through. Protect your new idea from that fate by taking the time to map out a framework before you get started. 

 It’s also tempting to just say “whoever wants to post can post” or “whoever wants to lead can lead,” and that’s great! But don’t rely solely on that. Appoint someone to post a minimum number of discussion questions for each book. Determine someone who will start out as the discussion leader each time — even if they will pass the torch mid-session. 

Step 6: Add Some Extras

A book club is pretty low maintenance. If you have some people, a book you all read, and a way to communicate, you did it! Congratulations! 

 However, you don’t have to stop there. If you’d like to keep your book club interesting, engaging, and creative, you can play around with some other ideas. Here are a few to get you started, but I’m sure you can come up with plenty on your own if you take a little time to think about it. Don’t be afraid to lean on the talents and passions of your particular group!

Idea 1: Participate in Character

One of the best elements of book clubs is that you get a chance to talk about your favorite (or not-so-favorite) characters. Take it a step further and show up in character. Dress up! Respond like your character would! 

You can have people choose character assignments ahead of time to make sure everyone is represented or just let people come as they choose and roll with it. 

Planning a few discussion questions that are specifically designed for characters to answer can make this activity as educational as it is fun.

Idea 2: Incorporate Writing

Sometimes just showing up to a book club meeting makes it hard for people who need more time to think to fully participate. Using some planned writing prompts lets those who like to choose their words more carefully have time to think through their response before sharing. 

 It’s important to take the pressure off of these writing activities. They aren’t going to be shown to anyone else, and they aren’t being judged on grammar or spelling. They’re just a way to get your ideas on the page before you choose which parts you want to share with everyone else. 

Idea 3: Create Groups Intentionally

Many online meeting platforms allow larger groups to separate into smaller groups for more focused discussion (Zoom’s “breakout rooms” is one popular way to do this). If you have participants fill out some information beforehand about their thoughts on the books, you can pair people based on their particular perspectives and interests. Here are some ways to put people together: 

  • Shared favorite character
  • Shared response about what they would have done in a character’s position
  • Shared favorite line 

Use the small groups to let those who have this shared interest talk and explore their ideas first, and then bring everyone back together into a large group to have a more robust, conflicting conversation. Often, letting people talk with those who see things the same way first helps them to be more confident and clearer when they’re discussing ideas with those who disagree.

Step 7: Reflect, Revise, and Keep Going

Some of the things you try won’t work out. Some books will be duds. Occasionally everyone will get busy and won’t finish in time for the meeting. Sometimes you’ll try a creative way to interact that will fall flat. 

 None of that means your book club is a failure. Change up the book list. Try something new. Give an extension when no one has finished and try again in two weeks. 

 Being able to reflect on what you really hope to get from this experience and being willing to experiment to get it is a recipe for success. 

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You've Got This!

As you start your virtual book club, remember it’s all about making the experience fun and flexible for everyone involved. Whether you meet weekly or just once a month, in real time or at your own pace, a virtual book club creates a relaxed space for readers to connect and share ideas. Don’t be afraid to get creative and explore new ways to interact! Most importantly, enjoy the journey of discovering books together while building a warm and engaging community—right from the comfort of home.

Book selection feel overwhelming? Have a solid grasp of hosting your own virtual book club but need help choosing an engaging read? Check out this article about living books and how to choose books that excite the imagination and compel you to care about what you are reading!





A Graduation Letter to Homeschooled Students

A Graduation Letter from Blair Lee

A Homeschool Graduation Letter

From Blair Lee, M.S.

As our homeschooling journey comes to an end, it feels bittersweet. I am proud of the person my son is growing into, yet reaching homeschool graduation means we close a chapter that has been so meaningful in our lives.

I know it can be hard to see the end of the journey when you’re still on the path, so I would like to share with you my thoughts on what it means to receive an education handcrafted to focus on a learner’s strengths, challenges, and passions — something all homeschoolers gift their children.

Dear Homeschooled Students

You have been raised and educated to think critically, to think outside the box, to spend days tunneling down rabbit holes, to dig deeply into academic topics, to appreciate your own intelligence, and to understand the way you as an individual learn. This is powerful stuff!

It is people like all of you who will be best prepared to tackle and solve the complex and myriad problems facing the world right now. You are the people in your peer group who have the skill set and who are best poised to change the world.

You have been educated to be innovators who see the world through a different lens. And it all started at home with parents who respected your unique intellect. At some point in your life, your parents looked at you and decided to gift you with a special journey through learning.

The Gift of a Handcrafted Education

For many of you, homeschooling probably has not always felt like a gift. All of this has most likely made you feel very different, even when you didn’t want to feel different. It has probably made you feel “special,” even when you didn’t want to feel special. Sometimes, it has probably made you feel isolated, when you didn’t want to feel that way. Here is the thing though: you are an adult a lot longer than you are a child or a teenager. The skill set you have acquired thus far will benefit you for the longest part of your journey — the part when you are an adult.

Homeschooling, by its very nature, is different for each homeschooled individual. That is where some of the specialness comes from. There are some commonalities you see for all homeschoolers, no matter what teaching methodology has been used: academic, classical, unschooled, child-led, eclectic or whatever.  

Homeschooled students learn in an environment that fosters thinking while focusing on understanding and creativity. This leads to an intuitive recognition that knowledge is not static — a very important trait that all of you now carry into adulthood.

As a homeschooled student, you have been raised in a manner that shows respect for your insights and understanding and that has given you the opportunity to articulate your core self. I promise you that a connectedness with your core, true self is an invaluable trait to take into adulthood. This connectedness leads to an understanding of how to rewrite core parts of your journey, something every adult does more than once. How lucky for you that you already have skill in this area.

How You Learn is Unique

As a scientist, it is only natural that I think of the way homeschoolers are taught as akin to the scientific concept of theory. A scientific theory grows, changes, and morphs as more information is acquired. Learning in an environment that values thinking and emphasizes understanding and creativity leads to the recognition that knowledge grows, changes, and morphs as you learn more.  

It is a trait of homeschooled kids that they are fearless about their ability to learn new things. Homeschooled kids grow up understanding that they can learn anything through doing. These are the most important traits of a lifelong learner.

All of this happens when your primary teacher is someone you live with 24/7. It happens when your primary teacher respects and values the way you as an individual think and learn. It is the heart of why every parent I have met who homeschools puts in the time and effort to homeschool their children. The traditional system treats the acquisition of knowledge as linear with one best approach. Because of your eclectic journey through learning, you have an insight that there is no one best approach for everyone.  This is an important understanding to have as you enter adulthood.

The Gifts of Today

You are graduating during a tumultuous time in the world — a world without one best approach for solving what needs to be solved. For some of you, this will fill you with promise. For most of you, it makes the next part of your journey seem uncertain and impossible to plan for. For many people, this uncertainty causes them to freeze as they worry about where to put their foot next in their journey.

My son likes to tell me that yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, and today is a gift. Do not spend too much time worrying about the mystery that can only be guessed at, a mystery that must be solved by living it when tomorrow becomes today.

Instead of worrying about tomorrow, focus on the gifts that today brings as you find purpose in your journey. Do not ever let self-doubt or insecurities keep you from being everything you want to be. You cannot find the possibilities without dreaming big and believing in yourself. You cannot reach the stars without reaching for them. You will stumble. It is a guarantee. That much about tomorrow is not a mystery. Every single adult in this audience has stumbled. It is a part of life.

As homeschooled students you probably already know it is not the answers you get correct that matter. The important answers are those that you miss, the ones you stumbled on. Those are where you find an opportunity for growth and where you need to focus. You have been raised to be life-long learners. For people raised with a deep understanding of how they themselves learn, nothing is outside of your ability to learn and grow into. No area is closed to a lifelong learner.

The Gift of Connecting to Purpose

You have been raised and educated with the understanding that connectedness brings meaning to what you are learning and improves your relationship with the knowledge you acquire. In order to acquire knowledge – or change the world – you need to recognize first where you need to focus, where you need to spend your energy, what questions you do not know the answer to, and where you – the unique person that you are – can connect and find purpose.

The world is in your handsIn this chaotic, crazy world you are going out into, believe in tolerance, work for equality, search for the truth that will make this a world where everyone can live in peace. All of you, because of the thoughtful, handcrafted education you have received, are particularly well-poised to be the change you want in the world. You have the opportunity to rewrite history.

Having purpose brings meaning to your life. Make it matter that you walked on this Earth. But you define what that means for you. Do not be afraid to be original. You define what will make your life matter for you. If you think about it, this is the heart of what it means to be a homeschooled student.

Homeschool Graduation: My tips for you as you go out into the world

  1. Those who are generous are lucky. I have found this to be a truism my entire life. A generosity of spirit is an important trait, and the best way to make your own luck.
  2. Happiness is worth striving for and for some reason it is the most highly underrated component of intelligence! Be brilliantly happy. An important component of being a happy person is to be nice, not because of how someone treats you, but because you are a nice person. Be brilliantly, happily nice!
  3. You look at only one face in the mirror every day of your life; make it a face you like.
  4. Time is the money of life. Spend it wisely. Many people live their lives like their days are limitless; do not fall into that trap. Make the moments and days of your life count by your own unique definition.
  5. Vote, please vote!

A Graduation Letter from Blair Lee

This was first given at a homeschool graduation a year before my son graduated. I was fortunate to be asked back the next year for my son’s homeschool graduation, to give this.

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